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Finally,

Winter has left our garden!

And our beautiful flowers have come into their right places. Colorful hydrangeas, red, yellow and George Burns roses, Dusty Millers, and the first lemon of our little lemon tree popping up out of the ground to decorate our garden.

What kind of flowers have you planted?

Senior Citizens , And a Way to Keep Cool

Some ways,

  • Get that suit on and find the ocean
  • Visit a pool, spa, recreation center
  • Go to your local library for tge day
  • If you drive and are healthy, drive to the Hamptons or to the Long House
  • Visit a park that is near the ocean
  • Try the mall for tge day
  • Staying home? Take a cool shower and after that put a cool towel around your neck
  • Drink water and or fresh lemonade
  • Use your air conditioner all night.
  • If your porch is cooler than inside, stay outdoors
  • Take a tour of your local college
  • Try the outdoor sprinkler in your yard to cool off
  • Visit a museum or art gallery
  • Take a few vacation days to a cool spot
  • See tge USA.
  • IDEAS?

Tools for a Garden

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Our tools for the garden:

(If you don’t know what these are used for, leave a note and we will answer you as soon as possible).

Prayer

Pitchfork

Empty containers

Spade shovel

Compost

Coffee filters

Fresh seeds

Popsickle sticks, chopsticks or paper straws, or small twigs

Tiny pitchfork

Dig phone

Gloves

Goggles – sometimes

Allergy pill

Smart phone

Water containers

Scissors, clippers. loppers

Vaccuum cleaner

Shop vaccuum

Rubber clogs or garden shoes

Twine, cord or ribbon

Rubber ducks

Creativity, imagination, energy and a touch of spunk

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Your YOUNIQUE Garden

Dollar store your garden!   Yes, you can put pretty little things in there from the dollar store.  Oops, what if someone steals from your garden?  Here’s the way that I see it.  If someone steals these little quote things, perhaps they need them more than I need them.   Wherever these messages are, they are good messages.  So, share the joy.  Find something creative, or positive or interesting for your garden, and place it there.  When you find it at the dollar store, you are a step ahead of the game.

See it as donating one dollar to a needy cause.   AND, if nobody steals them from your garden, then smile, and know that there are more good people in this world than there are people who do bad things.    That’s always good to remember.    Yes, the good outnumber the bad.   And there’s every person in the world who is good.  Perhaps some just need to be reminded to stay on the right path.

Add something wonderful to your lawn, even if you just have a plain green lawn.  Add a dollar store item that makes your lawn YOUR lawn.  Step out of the world of the Stepford Wives and know that each and every plain green grass yard can be a unique haven of individual ideas and sentiments.

Peace, and always thankful,

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What Your Rock Garden Does For Your Yard Space …

  1. A rock garden keeps the turkeys out of your yard
  2. A rock garden keeps the stray cars out of your yard.
  3. A rock garden, usually, keeps the weeds out of your yard
  4. Usually, a rock garden is maintainence-free, so it keeps the stress out of your yard
  5. Once completed, a rock keeps the expense out of your yard, because you do not need landscaper’s monthly fees.
  6. A rock garden, usually, will keep stray dogs and wildlife out of your yard.

These are only a few of the benefits of keeping a rock garden. Can you think of any other good reasons to build a rock garden? I would lobe your input on this.

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Got Questions?

The entry, is here.    This is YOUR entry.    Ask a question on any topic, and wait to see the answer here.

Got questions?

I’d be glad to do the research if I don’t know the answer

 

Aunt Corn Meal Report

Smiles. 

Okay, so this entry is all about the ant-cornmeal report.      A few weeks ago, I put down a lot of corn meal, indoors and some outdoors.    This is a purposeful effort to kill any ants that came indoors and to kill the next of ants outdoors.

It probably took about ta week or so, but we began to notice that the ants weren’t coming indoors anymore.   And now it’s been about  five days or more when we have seen no ants indoors at all.

So, the corn meal experiment is successful!    At first, I didn’t think it was going to work because the corn meal that I purchased said, “NO GLUTEN”.   However, it seems that corn meal works whether it has  gluten or not.

So put all your chemicals and insecticides away for the year and go out and purchase corn meal as a natural solution to get rid of your ants.

 

Experimenting in Art

Today’s art project consists of a small canvas.   First I painted the entire thing a nice shaded blue, a few different shades of blue.    Then I put a black border around it, in which I was going to put my picture.    Lesson learned.  In my haste, I used a temporary or washable black market to make the border.   And then later when I went back to work on it, I had forgotten that the marker was temporary.

I had planned to go over the temporary market color with a permanent sharpie, eventually.    Next I went back a few weeks later, (yes, weeks) to add more to the picture.  This is a mixed media, collage/photograph on a stretched canvas .

Accidentally , I smeared the black marker and wound up doing that over.  I found a pretty, wallpaper border of blue and yellow, and have started renewing my border on this project.  The picture that I had painted on this canvas, besides the blue border is a palm tree on a tiny island.    And I painted the whole thing in blue water.

I used a larger shell (larger than the palm tree) on the side of the picture and that will be my ‘sun’ , instead of a real sun.   Will probably put a few more shells here and there and probably end up doing the tiny cartoon thing somewhere inside this project.

 

Pictures?  Yes.
But not today.   Somewhere in between beginning , finishing and completing this project, I will post a picture or two or more.

 

The Golden Rule

Why?

  • It’s important
  • It’s real.
  • It’s healthy
  • It’s timeless
  • and it’s so very relevant in today’s world.

 

I am a photographer, by hobby, and to this day, I still just keep on taking pictures.

The featured photograph here is one of my (older) self-portraits.   Heading towards the school building, the sun cast a shadow onto the sidewalk.

Recently,

In the news, recently there was this article that speculated all sorts of bad things in Melania’s world.    And of course, the article(s) is fake news.

Think on this one.  Perhaps Melania has been staying away from the press because the press (most of it)  gives Melania a hard time.  Most of the  mainstream press, usually, prints  fake bad news, or rumors

Where’s the Golden Rule in this case?    It’s just a question.   It’s just an observation.  But yet, that’s a very legitimate question, “Where’s the Golden Rule in this case on the issues of the press, and the First Family?

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IN THE SHADOWS…

The picture with the big green leaf (the person is the shadow) is a picture  of one of my granddaughters.   The picture before that is a picture of my grandson.  In that picture, he was sitting in the lifeguard tower, off-season, and in the leaf picture, she was standing on a wooden bridge in a wildlife sanctuary area.  We were watching birds together, and she was checking out the chipmunks and other wildlife in the area.   The “shadows” in the bottom row, the ones with the arches were taken outside of a small chapel.  That picture is the inside of the chapel (as seen from outside) and the trees, the tree shadows were on the wall of the chapel though the trees were outdoors.   The ‘featured’ picture is a moon shot that I took a few years ago, in Staten Island, NY,  USA.  The last picture is a shadow of a tree on a fence, in New York State, USA.

This month. May 2018, I’ve taken a few new shadow pictures but they are not posted here.   I might post them in a few months or so.

 

Ant Solution

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Seriously, it’s time to stop using chemicals to get rid of household pests. If you have ants, and you need to get the ants out of the house, do not use chemicals, insecticides or caustic agents to get rid of insects.

FOR ANTS — there is a simple solution for these pests. Yes, they are God’s creatures, however, there is a problem if they are indoors. You don’t want these crawly things walking around inside your home. That is not a healthy situation.

NATURAL SOLUTIONS:

You can move. Smiles, just kidding.

You can use any number of ‘corn’ solutions . Corn starch, corn meal, these both work well to get rid of ants. I’ve heard that they eat this stuff and carry it back to the nest and that all the ants die. I don’t know how this works, however, I ‘ve seen it work.

I’ve placed corn meal around the garden areas outside where there was a nest somewhere. (There were tons of ants but I couldn’t find the nest). Sometimes this worked. The one time this didn’t work was only because the birds at the corn meal. In this case, I tried corn starch. That worked and the birds wouldn’t eat that.

The dollar store had corn meal without gluten. I wasn’t sure that would work, however, I tried it anyway and that worked. Seems the ants like to come inside on the really rainy days, and that’s what they did.

I put corn meal on the counter == where I saw the ants. And these were the large black ants. And, like magic, the ants disappeared. The next day I saw only one ant. And then after that, there were no ants left indoors. I spread a few bags of corn meal outdoors, just in case. And so far, this is working.

The good thing is that the corn meal won’t harm the birds or other animals, yet ti does kill the ants. That works for me.

The Turpin Angels

Just because the kids and the trial is not in the news, that doesn’t mean that the story is over.   And it also doesn’t mean that this kids still need our prayers, our help and our support.

So this entry is for the Turpin kids and the Turpin adult kids.    Protect those kids, because the perps, even as we read here, are probably plotting ways to get access to the kids and to the adult kids of the TURPINS.

I pray that the professionals surrounding the Turpin kids have stopped and continue to stop any and all access to the kids and to the adult kids . Then and only then will true healing take place.








































 

Pinhole Camera Day

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I said, “How about trying this Pickle Popcorn” …:) 

The first picture is a picture of a classroom with students.   The subject, that day was “pinhole cameras” .        The instructor showed us how to make our own pinhole cameras.    This was all a part of National Pinhole Camera Day in New York.

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National Dill Pickle Popcorn Day!

Did you believe that?

You see, you can’t believe everything that is in type and you can’t believe everything you see in a  blog or even in a newspaper.

I tasted Dill Pickle Popcorn at a local supermarket and decided it was delicious.  And in this picture, I had just handed the bag of popcorn  to my grandson.   The look on his face is “Hmm, Dill Pickle Popcorn” ?

The interesting thing about this popcorn is that I don’t like dill pickles at all.   I prefer half sour pickles.     But I tried this popcorn anyway, and to my great surprise, I really like dill Pickle Popcorn.

 

 

Two Favorite Places * Landmarks

Throughout my life, I’ve always loved two very special places, one is Coney Island and the other is the water, the ocean  (in this case, the Ferry)

These pictures are of around the ferry area, and inside the building that houses the entranceway to the area.    Silly me, I never took pictures of the actual ferry that day.   In the past I’ve taken video pics of the ferry and the water  and the ride.   And I’ve probably taken hundreds of pictures of the ocean and of Coney Island .

Love the water, and one day in the summer or spring, I will venture back to take some more photos and to breathe in that totally special air that comes only when in contact directly with the ocean water.

 

Photography Blocks

Things that I remember to do, when I remember to do them.

  • Before clicking that shutter button, check all four corners of the shot and all the areas around the margins of the photograph.   Frame that subject properly , whether in the center or off to the side , paying attention, if you want to do so, to the ‘rule of thirds’.
  • Look at your picture, through the viewfinder, and ask yourself if the picture is too complicated, too distracting or simply too ‘busy’ to really enjoy.
  • Consider doing the photograph in a different color, or tone.   Sometimes, depending on the subject, place or time, burnt sienna might be more pleasing than regular black and white or even than a color photograph.
  • Portrait,  ?    Check the person’s head.   There are all too many photographs that are portraits that have a tree or other odd thing sticking out of a person’s head.
  • Brace yourself!   If you are not using a tripod, then brace yourself against something to steady the camera.  Or at the least, bring your elbows into your body instead of posing like someone doing the ‘chicken dance’ while taking that picture.  This simple thing will eliminate most camera shake.
  • Consider the ‘angle’ of the photograph.     I ‘saw’ a picture once, before I snapped the shutter button, I decided to walk around a bit and really look at the different angles of the would-be picture.      See the picture here.     This is the best view that I finally decided on .
  • Consider this — don’t bother with whatever others will think of  your photograph.  You are taking this picture for yourself and or to express yourself to others, or to remember a particular time, place or day.  It really doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks of your picture, of your style or of your photographs.   Just keep on keeping on and keep  on taking those photographs!
  • Practice.    That’s about it.   The more photographs you take, the more experienced you will be.  The more mistakes you make, the more ‘best’ photos you will take.  Practice, practice but above all, have fun while you are doing this ‘practice’.

 

 

 

 

 

“Wait and See”

Sometimes “wait and see” is the best option available to you.

In my life, four times , this principle or idea has managed to  “wait and see” and have good results.

Today, at this moment I will have to get to that  “Wait and See”  motto or attitude

For now, I’m going to have to fall back on that since I can’t stay awake long enough   to finish this entry.

 

 

Photography Over The Years

These pictures “in circles”  are each just a small part of the original photograph.    But they are interesting even though you see a little bit of every photograph.

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ways to cool off…

  • Purchase a cooling towel.  That’s one that is thinner than a regular towel, and made of different material.
  • Make fresh lemonade with real sugar and real lemons.   Do not add ice.
  • Get one huge watermelon and cut it into many pieces.
  • Fans- if you don’t have an air conditioner.
  • Library – if you have neither.
  • Plan for a half-day at the sea.   That has to be the coolest spot in any city.
  • Music.   Smiles .  Yes, music can help you keep cool.  Get your mind off the heat and you will surely be a cool cat!
  • Go to the beach.
  • Put your toes in the ocean — even if you don’t want to go swimming.

 

Birds, Stills & Videos

Birds and Bird Photography… there are all different kinds in this world.    Personally, I don’t do much technologically perfect photography but rather , due to circumstances beyond my control , I  focus on framing, and on the message rather than on the science of taking the pictures.  So here goes, my imperfections , however I love all these pictures because I love birds, and these are real. 

The nature , camping, bird videos are at my  videography site here  (Also, the cheese auction video and others are at this site – check this link )

Nature, Camping, Cheese Auction and More

 

LINK   to   ‘videos’ 

 

After the Shooting… Photography

Some of these photos are included in a project that I call,
“EMPTY SPACES” ..   I took all the photographs, some recently, and some decades ago.   All photographs are copyrighted. All rights reserved.  No copies without prior written permission.  

The first photograph is of an (almost) empty cafe, and what makes the empty cafe  a little more interesting is the view of one of my favorite teas.

Below:  EMPTY CHAIRS

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Empty Chairs

 

 

Self portrait taken decades ago artfromperry Self Portrait

 

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Black empty space surrounding the empty spider web

 

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“After the shooting is over” , another page of the book empty library room

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“After the shooting is over” ..empty library , a book opened.    It was a short while after I learned that my brother had shot himself, I was in a library, reading, and came across this page, “after the shooting is over”.   We both “shot” …but I choose to shoot with a camera, or , sometimes, even with a mobile phone.      If you make the choice to shoot this year, please consider using a camera as your tool.     Thank you for reading.
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Empty corridor at a studio
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Empty city street with shadow of stalker’s target person
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Empty of flowers, the leaf garden
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Memory of my father’s tool shop, a peg board, this one empty..

thePICTURES2018assignmentcopy2018Screen Shot 2018-01-13 at 2.42.30 AM    In memory of those who lost their lives to AIDS. Once a disease empty of hope, now people who have died of AIDS  memorialized in a quilt that is larger than seven football fields.   A man stands looking at the lost lives, in pictures, in momentoes, in words,  surrounding him,

 

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Empty corridor  a place that is usually filled with people..
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EMPTY white space in the midst of photographs that I took over the years.   Corner photo of part of the “chalk walk” 2017.  One piece of chalk and an empty sidewalk produced hundreds of smiles, tons of heartfelt wishes and dreams,  attitudes and new friends .  Yes, I know.  This isn’t empty.  But hey, it’s my page .  Smiles.

 

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Black rectangle of emptiness surrounding the empty spider web.
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Two friends, months ago.  Today, there is one seat empty.

 

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Stormy places, stormy weather empties the streets of people

 

 

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Empty kayak, repaired with duct tape, out of water temporarily, for transport.  2017
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In fall, this ground is covered with hundreds of leaves, now empty of leaves , in winter
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Same empty theatre ..vintage , still showing movies and live entertainment today
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Empty beach, a tourist beach , no tourists
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Empty beach path through the dunes
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Empty theatre, beautiful vintage theatre
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Names Quilt … acres…of names , healing hearts of emptiness ..remembrances.. memorials .
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Eyes, invisible in the picture, empty of tears … RIP JD
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Empty branches of the Weeping Katsura tree ..winter empty .

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Bus chairs, empty, on a busy day in New York City, USA

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Warning sign to passengers, emptying this place , the forbidden zone,

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Empty space around temporary art exhibit , historical ,  Services  ,   look it up
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In a building “empty” of air , probably sealed hermetically, the sky around reminds us that oxygen is close,  the sky is available for anyone looking out the window from the empty building.

 

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Empty of feelings,  appropriately a cold, wire, temporary sculpture, depicts what happens to  many families across the world.                                                                     The empty feeling in a mother,  leaving with her children, is topped by that empty feeling of the child, forced to leave her dad, her real family.     I find it interesting that this artist has the child facing backwards, looking back in this temp sculpture.                              In this temporary sculpture, after walking around the park there seeing different angles and views of this sculpture, I choose this one .   My choice of angles put the man in the middle of the scene, the monument in the background.    Both the permanent sculpture and the temporary sculpture compose a modern day picture of what sometimes happens to families across the world.              Empty places, empty spaces exist in places where there are lots of people.  Truth is empty isn’t really empty at all.    artfromperry

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Names Project * larger than 7 football fields , the quilt
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Empty corridor , light reflections
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Empty corridor at a studio

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BELOW – – an empty pegboard

My Dad had a few of these in his shop..and on that board were a collection of tools and accessories to tools … pictured here, empty..

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Memory of my father’s tool shop, a peg board, this one empty..
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Empty of flowers, the leaf garden Empty of Flowers –   The picture of the leaves, hundreds of brown leaves, is still, to me , about empty spaces, empty places.    The front yard is usually covered in flowers, plants, sunflowers, hydrangeas, and odd plants.   During the fall time , winter, the garden turns into a mulch place -hence the leaves, and the garden remains “empty’ of flowers, ’empty ‘ of plants.

 

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Black empty space surrounding the empty spider web
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Empty city street with shadow of stalker’s target person
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Two students looking out the window. One student returned to class.
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For my father… yes, later..
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Empty beach, a tourist beach , no tourists
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Empty theatre, beautiful vintage theatre
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Same empty theatre ..vintage , still showing movies and live entertainment today
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Names Quilt … acres…of names , healing hearts of emptiness ..remembrances.. memorials .
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Empty Hennessy.  To the person who left this on the ground, when you have the money to drink fancy, kindly be fancy enough to take your bottles with you.  Thank you.    Our city streets are paved with the remains of peoples’ parties.  Are they really having ‘fun’ if they can’t carry a small bottle for 20 feet?   Empty ..
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Caption this one okay?

(NOTE: )   There are more photographs under this long writing.   Look below if you are short on time.
I enjoyed a great morning at the Marquetry Society meeting and then went to this library room.  I found a cool book on videography, and opened  — randomly– to a page.     Imagine that?      I just pulled the book open and flipped a page and there was this headline to the article, “After the shooting was over….” .
I read the title of the reading and I paused…    “After the shooting is over….”  .  My  brother used a gun to end his life.    I, being different than him, use a camera for all my shooting.  But still, this headline got to me; it reached into the emptiness of my heart that still mourned for him…reprocessing the words, ” After the shooting is over” ..    I wished he would have thought about that.     They say that we shouldn’t think of the future, just be concerned about today.
However, in this one case, I just wish he had thought about the future as he made that horrible choice, maybe his last choice,   “After the shooting is over….” .
After the shooting is over, I gather his pain was relieved, finally.  But “after the shooting is over…” ,      After the shooting is over,  the shooter feels no pain but the survivors, the survivors remember the shooter in a very different way than  ‘before’ .
And as I always say, in everything, give thanks.   So I look for the good in this horrible tragedy.           The healing part was that he did not send his suicide note to me but sent it to someone else.        By not sending the note to me, and by sending it to a ‘distant’ family member,  he spared me, and my sons and my daughter and my grandkids, that crashing, ‘initial’ discovery , the grim notification  by  police, by detectives.     Thankfully,  we were spared the shock, the initial, immediate shock of the notification.     I really have to thank God for that.  Those days, approximately eleven days,  were a buffer from the shock waves.    It took me about eleven days to find out the truth about what happened, to get the details, to find out whether the story was true or not.      And while I initially thought the ‘not knowing’ was horrible,  I realize , in hindsight , that  the “not knowing” right away is what saved my mind from the earth-rocking shock of knowing what happened to him right away.
Thank you, dear brother , for sparing me from that grim discovery .      Who knows, maybe he did think about what happens, …”after the shooting is over”.  …

 

 

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Sometimes that happens.                            This photograph was on display in  2015.      An empty chapel, I took that picture from the outside of the chapel, looking inside , in the window, and looking clear out the opposite window.   Empty of people, this chapel, just a simple image of a small church in a graveyard.
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Empty branches of the Weeping Katsura tree ..winter empty .

 

Good, and Bad, and Evil

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Discern the difference between ordinary conversation and malicious gossip.  That’s the key to avoiding bullies.   Bullying begins with gossip.     Now that you know this, steer clear of bullies by staying away from those who spread malicious gossip about others.  If they are spreading it about others, for sure, they are talking about  you also.   Bullies never stick to one target.  They need other targets for when the first target isn’t around.   So ditch the bully and go enjoy life! 

What you think of me is none of my business –   Yes, that’s the name of a good book!   

And those words, that is how I get past gossip and past a bully.    I never listen to what the bully says.    Don’t allow anyone’s opinion of you to get you down or to stop you from reaching your goals.   Just keep on keeping on.

When you see a person who spreads malicious lies, keep on walking.   Do not entertain that type of person, and go for the “no contact” rule when it comes to narcissistic bullies.

Keep on keeping on. 

And keep on walking away .

Never let the bully win.

Keep on keeping on .

Continue reading “Good, and Bad, and Evil”

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Photography bully Awareness

NOTE:    This is about my photography,  my style of photography , when it comes to taking self-portraits.  And there is a little background of how I began using this style of portraits , many decades ago .

 

Below, a  “selfie”

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First a little about “targets”

About “Targets” :

When someone is being bullied for years on end by the same person, they want to be invisible, yet they as human nature would have it want to be connected and included in their world and surroundings.

A person who is a target might, if they are an artist, photographer, or creative type, might begin taking selfies that ‘include’ the self, yet the person remains ‘invisible’ so that the bully doesn’t see the person. Distancing yourself from the bully is important and sometimes that means even taking yourself ‘out of the picture’ . So there you go, now you know the reason for the mysterious “selfies’.

An ‘early’ selfie, taken decades ago – below

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Scrapbook photo

That photo – shadow in the forest – was taken in the year 2000 or 2001 .  (Any later dates on the photos url are because the photos were ‘put’ onto the computer at later dates, on various portable storage devices.

Bullying over Decades and Invisible Selfies: 

This picture below is one that I took years ago or decades ago.

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Someone has targeted me for decades, and decades ago, I began taking invisible selfies. This is more recent. I am , hopefully, free now. But I still like the style of an “invisible selfie”. Yes, silly you, that’s an elbow. You can find ‘targets’ amongst your own friends and family. Sometimes targets leave class early and get there late. Other times targets miss family events (in order to avoid one particular person). But, as time passes, the target will materialize, take their place in society, and they will no longer be silent, nor invisible completely.

IMG_0298.JPG More recent selfie, because I still like taking invisible selfies, and I love the forest and preserve areas of the land.

Headphones Help Targets Re-enter Society:

Do you know someone who wears headphones all the time? Possibly that person might be a target. I am not saying this is the case always ,but I’m saying it’s a possibility the person is a target, a silent target.

I know. When I lived in close quarters with a bully,   (when I lived in the same building), I wore headphones all the time. Even now, out in public, you might see me with headphones in public areas. And that is to avoid the ‘bully’ who still, to this day ‘looks for me’ . I am no longer staying ‘out of society’. I am trying to take part, to get out more. But I take my strong faith in the God of Peace, and my headphones with me. If I am with you and you see me put the headphones on my ears, it means I have spotted the bully and I am using my first method of avoidance, ‘close your ears’ to what the bully says. And in a few moments after that, depending on how strong I feel, I will either stand my ground or leave the place. No more bullies.

DOUBLE Advantages:  Headphones , 

Using headphones as a defense serves two purposes.  First it is a visible thing that can alert people around you that the bully is near you or approaching you.  (And yes, sometimes I have used headphones when the bully wasn’t around and then regular people approach and I must remember to take the headphones off.  They can become a habit , when worn every other day.

Secondly,  what you put onto your phone or radio, the music or the talk that you hear through the headphones can strengthen you, give you courage, and remind you that you have a strong faith .   So,  you are using a tool , the music or the talk , to get stronger and stronger in courage to be able to conquer your fear of the bully.   So, headphones work.

Photography:

And yes, we need to help targets become more visible. I will always take photos like this, because these were my ticket to be ‘invisible’, slowly, one step at a time.

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About the pictures below, these are only some of the selfies that I have taken over the years.   In some of the pictures, you will see a real portrait, a person.  Most of the ones where I am visible, it is because I am on television.   At the television  studio, I felt safe, because the bully refuses to come near the tv studio.   In fact, for decades, the bully has tried to get me to stop producing television.   There are times, that I might retreat, but so far, I’m keeping at it.

Lightbulb Moment:

In June, 2015, I finally became a bit brave and began appearing in photographs, hence, “lightbulb moment”  .

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lightbulb moment

It is probably around the time that I began putting pictures online at various sites.   Since 1991, I’ve been “visible” on television but invisible in photographs.   One of the oldest invisible selfies that I took was the one shadow where there is a vintage light on the wall and the shadow is on the bottom left hand side of the photograph. That was taken in the 90s in New York City, between Brooklyn, and Manhattan, NYS.

What happened to make me more ‘visible’, in photographs?   What happened was that the bully stepped up the bullying and at that point, since my brother was gone, I decided it was time to stop hiding from the camera.    The person should not have stepped up the bullying after my brother died.  That was a mistake.  Yet, this was the mistake that really freed me.   Today, I feel free.   I might not be free, totally, because the bully is still around and still anxious to get near me and to start speaking with me , once again.   Today ,  I feel strong and I feel safer than I had felt in the past.

Part of the reason for this feeling is because of two things:

  1.  A more intense spiritual connection, and that helps me immensely .
  2. I did a video called, “The Un-silencing of Me”  and making that video public was a step in the right direction.  It is time that I use my voice to help myself get away from the bully.

 

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The “Un-silencing” of Me

Today , I am not afraid of ‘being in pictures’ though I do not like ‘posed’ pictures because these are not real.   Candids are better, for me, anyway.   Why ‘pose’ for a picture when you can just be real and just let life happen?   The only posed pictures of myself that I have are my ‘INVISIBLE ” selfys.

A recent self that I took, look close; Yes, I’m in there.

I am an Executive Producer of a regular show that airs on community television.

Collection of INVISIBLE and visible selfys below:

Please make me visible, connected with the world, by making a comment.  Let me know that you have seen me here, in my photographs.   Your words are greatly appreciated.

 

 

If the bully continues to stay away from me , I will not reveal the bully’s name nor show a photograph of the bully.   That’s the plan for now.    I believe this is a good plan.

My true and real defense is my faith in God.  It is only God, the God of Peace , Who has protected me throughout my life. And I must acknowledge that because truth is important.

My thanks, first, always and forever , is to God.  You have read a  lot here and you have learned a lot about parts of my life.   If you want to help out here, you can help by simply leaving a note — so that I know that someone has read here.

Are you visible or invisible? 

Peace on your journey.

And Happy New Year!

Birthday Month

So, the good thing about January is that it is this much closer to spring and summer!  And I celebrate my birthday for the entire month!  And so, for my birthday, I am going to feature my art for the entire month, beginning with this entry.  Featured photograph is one of my self-portraits, taken at the “Carriage House” in New York State.    Some other (unrelated photographs, my art, below):  first picture a collection of my snow photographs

Link to videos here 

So what’s good about January for you?

 

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