I know today, that some, targets are having a hard time because the bully is pressuring them to spend time with them (the bully) because it’s holiday time.
So. I post this as a reminder, don’t let the bully win. Don’t spend time with the bully, and don’t go anywhere with the bully . Just be with yourself or with your friends or other relatives, and be you. Enjoy the holidays and enjoy the HolyDays.
Here are some videos for you as reminders.
Edited: May 2020 . I avoided a bully for six decades, over six decades, and finally, I can say that I am free. The bully is still around, but the change is that I am free. I know that this time, I know that I no longer have to be around her. I, no longer, have to put up with her, and I no longer have to be in contact with her. I have learned and it’s finally gotten through to me, that you can forgive someone from a distance. And you can stay that distance. Keep the distance between you and a bully if you are being bullied. It doesn’t matter whom the bully is, forgive and then keep your distance.